喜歡《飛屋環游記》的配樂,昨天再次聽到,依然很感動,電影里面的感恩畫面有一次浮現腦海。他得獎是實至名歸的。他的成就,也是我們每個家長可以對照的例子。我想他有感而發,同時也表達了自己對父母,老師,同事對于他的各種愛好和興趣的縱容的感謝。一個得到無條件支持的孩子,才能有勇氣去闖,去探索,去嘗試。唯唯諾諾,人云亦云,那肯定是平庸人生的開始。不要埋沒我們的孩子,他們每個人都有自己天賦,只是我們有沒有耐心去發現和等待。愛孩子,就給他們機會發現自己。
昨天觀看奧斯卡頒獎典禮,很多獲獎者的感言都很感人。其中這位獲得電影配樂大獎的,為3D動畫片Up配樂的Michael Giacchino,沒有講套話,而是講了以下這一段話:
When I was... I was nine and I asked my dad, "Can I have your movie camera? That old, wind-up 8 millimeter camera that was in your drawer?" And he goes, "Sure, take it." And I took it and I started making movies with it and I started being as creative as I could, and never once in my life did my parents ever say, "What you're doing is a waste of time." Never. And I grew up, I had teachers, I had colleagues, I had people that I worked with all through my life who always told me what you're doing is not a waste of time. So that was normal to me that it was OK to do that. I know there are kids out there that don't have that support system so if you're out there and you're listening, listen to me: If you want to be creative, get out there and do it. It's not a waste of time. Do it. OK?
大意是:我九歲的時候,我問我爸爸,你的攝影機能給我嗎?就是那個你放在抽屜里的8毫米老式攝影機。我爸說:當然,拿去吧!我拿著攝影機,開始拍攝和制作電影,我開始越來越有創意,而且我的父母從來沒有講過“你做這些簡直是浪費時間!”這樣的話。我長大了,我的老師,我的同事們,跟我合作過的人,總是告訴我,你所作的事情,不是浪費時間。因此,對于我而言,我所作的都是很正常的事情。但是我知道,有的孩子就沒有得到這個支持系統,所以,如果你在聽我說,聽著:如果你想做富有創意的事情,那就去做吧!這不是浪費時間,做吧,好嗎?